It’s just you…and it’s just your life. You don’t give much thought to it. You make decisions the same way you always have. You have similar relationships that you’ve always had, and you attend the same type of events. You’re just living your life.
You don’t realize the decisions you make come from a certain place. The type of job you have, relationships you possess, and what you do all stem from the same place. How is this even possible? Why does it really matter?
There is something not quite working in your life. Whether it’s a relationship, the job you possess, or the money you make. Maybe you don’t feel fulfilled or maybe you don’t know your purpose or even why you do what you do.
You’re going through the routines of life. It’s not that you’re miserable, you’re just not happy. And you don’t know why. You can’t quite put your finger on it…why you’re not more successful, not having more fun, or not in a committed relationship.
Most likely, you don’t even know the things that you tell yourself in your head. It might have started when you were a kid. The first time you heard it was when you came in second place instead of first. You got a B instead of an A, or when you were compared to your sister. You just didn’t feel good enough.
If only you came in first. If only you got an A. If only you were the first born or the baby. Maybe then, you would have felt good enough. Maybe then you would’ve lived up to their expectations of what and who you should’ve been.
But you didn’t. And you aren’t. Maybe you still hear things where you still don’t feel good enough. Where you still don’t measure up.
Then you continue saying them to yourself. You tell yourself how you’re not good enough. You tell yourself how you don’t measure up to your neighbor…to your co-worker…to your sister. You tell yourself if you just had a nicer car. If you were just prettier or thinner. If you were just smarter or had a better job. Maybe then you’d be happy. Maybe then people would like you. Maybe then you’d be accepted, wanted, or loved. You tell yourself these things to make yourself feel better when in reality they just make you feel worse about yourself.
You can’t keep beating yourself down while expecting to be filled with happiness, fulfillment, abundance, and love. It’s just not possible.
Stop wasting time on all the things you aren’t or you could’ve, should’ve, would’ve have done, become, or had. Spend time on appreciating and loving yourself for the amazing woman you are. What are the things you excel at? What are your strengths? What do you do better than anyone else? Yes, yes, there is something that makes you amazingly you!
You bring something to this world that absolutely NO ONE else does. What is it? What makes you unique? What makes you, you?
Find out what that is and share it with the world. You have a one-of-a-kind voice waiting to get out there and ignite the world on fire. Don’t allow what someone else thinks or says to stop you from spreading your voice. Don’t allow you to stop you from sharing it. Get out of your own way. Find your voice and discover your value, so you can transform your life and the lives of others. The world needs you…exactly who and how you are.
So love on yourself. Champion yourself. Encourage yourself. Squash the negativity and let yourself soar. The world is waiting!
Share with me in the comments below how you don’t feel good enough. Then share with me what you bring to the world that no one else does. You are here to impact the world, and we’re going to help you do it.